E x e t e r C e i l i d h s
CODE OF CONDUCT
EC is a safe place to dance, both physically and mentally/emotionally.
We will not tolerate aggressive, discriminatory, disruptive, harassing or
offensive behaviour.
Golden Rule: Don't
do anything that reduces other people's enjoyment.
Before you come
Look after your personal hygiene
Wear fresh, clean, loose clothing and suitable (soft-soled, non-marking) shoes
Do not wear body sprays, heavy perfumes or makeup powder. Use only plain
deodorant
Wear clothing which is not likely to be viewed as offensive, revealing, or
make others uncomfortable.
Avoid sharp jewellery or other items that could catch on another dancer
If you have an injury or a bad joint then consider applying a very obvious
bandage or a badge saying "Ouch!".
If you get dizzy easily then a "No swings please" badge might help.
Asking
In principle, all dancers should feel comfortable asking others to
dance. However, anyone has the right to decline without providing a reason,
and you must respect when others do the same. If someone declines you twice,
do not ask them again.
If people are in a group, be wary of approaching them and disturbing their
enjoyment - allow them to come to you.
Grip
Don't grip tightly - a loose hold is best.
Your partner should be able to release the hold without you having to change
anything.
Thumbs hurt, so never, ever use them.
Give weight if you can.
Physical Proximity
Give your dance partner enough space.
With people you know you may dance closely, but otherwise keep your distance.
No close holds, or prolonged eye or other contact.
Look at their face, not their chest!
Be mindful of the whole space.
Avoid risky movements and excessive speed on crowded floors.
Twirls and flourishes
These can be fun for experienced dancers but they are not for
everyone.
Never force anyone else to spin or swing too fast unless you are absolutely
sure they will enjoy it.
Helping Newbies
The best thing you can do to help other people dance is to be in the
right place at the right time.
Don't talk while the caller is talking – it’s rude and confusing for others
Don't push people to where they "should" be. If absolutely necessary, just
point...
Interaction
Respect the other dancers, the musicians and the caller.
Be kind but not familiar.
Accept that other people have different needs abilities and boundaries, and
dance so that everyone enjoys the evening.
Mistakes happen. Don't criticise anyone. Laugh with them and move on.
Don't offer corrections or dance advice to others unless they explicitly ask
for it.
Dance Roles
Most dances will be gender neutral, but some may not be.
Traditional labels should not restrict you - dance whatever role you want to.
Do not tell someone else they are standing on the wrong side!
Once the dance has started, dance with whoever comes toward you.
If it goes wrong
If you witness or experience behaviour you are uncomfortable with,
please speak to the caller.
If you encounter a painful or uncomfortable situation in the middle of the
dance, a firm "Ouch!" or "No!" or "Stop that" is the fastest way to solve the
problem and it helps the other person to learn. If they keep doing it then
please talk to the caller as soon as possible.
Five year review of
Exeter Ceilidhs.